Encounters With My Runaway Mother

Book - 2013
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2013 Governor General's Literary Award -- Shortlisted, Non-Fiction

2013 Hilary Weston Writers' Trust -- Shortlisted, Non-Fiction

Projection is the story of this mother-daughter meeting in Brazil, of how two strangers, connected by little more than blood, spent ten days together trying to build a relationship.

In 1977, Priscila Uppal's father drank contaminated water in Antigua and within 48 hours was a quadriplegic. Priscila was two years old. Five years later, her mother, Theresa, drained the family's bank accounts and disappeared to Brazil. After two attempts to abduct her children, Theresa had no further contact with the family.

In 2002, Priscila happened on her mother's website, which featured a childhood photograph of Priscila and her brother. A few weeks later, Priscila summoned the nerve to contact the woman who'd abandoned her.

The emotional reunion was alternately shocking, hopeful, humorous, and devastating, as Priscila came to realize that not only did she not love her mother, she didn't even like her.

Projection is a visceral, precisely written, brutally honest memoir that takes a probing look at a very unusual mother-daughter relationship, yet offers genuine comfort to all facing their own turbulent and unresolved familial relationships.
Publisher: Toronto : Dundurn, ©2013
ISBN: 9781771022743
Branch Call Number: 819.1 UPP
Characteristics: 270 pages : illustrations, portraits ; 23 cm


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Sep 07, 2014

This book is very well written..but the movie theme gets to be tiring.
Unlike Brando Skyhorse, Jeanette Winterson or mary karr, uppal didn't spend much time with her mother. But she spent a lot of time thinking about her in aid of writing a book.Uppal seems to have gone to Brazil to produce this sad book, rather than building a relationship. Her mother seemed to have the same suspicions,and perhaps that is why she put up a wall. If this was a story about an absentee father, it might never have been told.

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