The Memory Keeper's Daughter

The Memory Keeper's Daughter

[a Novel]

Book - 2005
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This riveting family drama from the author of the short story collection "The Secrets of a Fire King" explores every mother's silent fears--losing a child and that the child grows up without her.
Publisher: New York : Viking, c2005
ISBN: 9781594131974
Branch Call Number: EDWAR
Characteristics: 401 p


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Dec 30, 2017

There were enough secrets and plot twists to keep me reading til the end. On hindsight, however, it was a very middle-class white look at family life, everyone had a home with a garden, there was a BIG focus on children,and the solution to every thing seemed to be to get married. Even the alcoholism of one of the main characters was treated superficially, as if it was a normal response to her marital problems, and it just disappeared into thin air after a while. Also a bit too much detail about what people were wearing. There was one character who was an anti-war protester, but that also disappeared into thin air when she got married and got a job.

CatherineG_1 Aug 20, 2017

March 1964, a young doctor and his pregnant wife are on their way to the hospital during a horrible snowstorm. They end up at his clinic and he is forced to deliver the baby with the assistance of his loyal nurse.
A healthy, baby boy named Paul is delivered. While his wife is sedated. a second baby, a girl, Phoebe is born but with Down's syndrome.
In those few moments, the doctor makes a decision that will impact peoples' lives forever.
Great story with many discussion points. Would be ideal for book club.

May 28, 2017

A friend of mine had offered to let me borrow a few of her favorite books. I knew nothing about this novel, but was excited to get into it. The story is set back in the 60s (well, that's when it starts, it then follows the plot along for another 25+ years). A quick rundown: A couple has twins, the second child born (a daughter) has Down's Syndrome, so while the mother is under anesthesia, the father (also the doctor who delivered the babies) asked the nurse to take the baby to an institution and tells his wife the baby died. As the story unfolds you see how this one decision effects the lives of so many people. I really enjoyed how each chapter was written from another person's perspective. At times it felt a bit long, but definitely kept me interested and engaged.

Great twist and turns of a doctor, the wife and his nurse.

AmandaVollmershausen Dec 23, 2013

I found the pace of this novel to be excellent, the themes very well developed (family ties, secrets, barriers to intimacy) but I did not get caught up in it as I expected. Nevertheless, it's worth a read and covers a subject that is either uncommonly written about or I simply had never read a book focussing on families with mentally delayed children. The prose is a perfect bland of complexity and simplicity.

Nov 18, 2013

A real touching story. Although a slow pace, it keeps a steady beat as it walks us through the journey between two families. I really loved this book because it is a story totally relatable to modern day and age.

Aug 28, 2013

I could not put this book down. A period of twenty years is spanned in this tale and at each new point, different characters are narrating the story.

Amazing and poignant. I thought it ended a bit too abruptly.

booklady1 Aug 18, 2013

Well and Beautifully written.... this is a special story that captures a terrible,heart wrenching, sad ,tragic,and so emotionally touching situation. It touches my heart and reaches into my very soul. this book deserved 5*****stars. For me it 's a must read! I now know things about down syndrome that I never knew before.

Jun 22, 2013

This was a moving movie from start to finish. I disagree with what the doctor did by sending away the girl with problems. I think the wife could have handled the downs syndrome very well. I am glad the nurse took her to raise instead of putting her in a uncaring instuition for the rest of her life. It was a emotional book but i enjoyed it and learned about downs syndrome from the book too. We should be patient and loving to our children no matter what their handicaps are;. They are part of us no matter what . The book was special to read too.

WVMLBookClubTitles Jun 17, 2013

In a tale spanning 25 years, a doctor delivers his newborn twins during a snowstorm and, rashly deciding to protect his wife from their baby daughter’s affliction with Down syndrome, turns her over to a nurse, who secretly raises the child.

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Nov 18, 2013

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booklady1 Aug 18, 2013

A family drama, The Memory Keeper’s Daughter explores every mother's silent fear: What would happen if you lost your child and she grew up without you? It is also an astonishing tale of love and how the mysterious ties that hold a family together help us survive the heartache that occurs when long-buried secrets are finally uncovered.


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Feb 10, 2011

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